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We all knew that this would happen one day, but it doesn't make it any easier to accept.  Maggie, Pam, Suzanne, Kim,  Judy, Carrie, Brenda and Brandie - We love and miss you!!! 
 
Although Maggie was the first member that we lost, it was extremely difficult when we lost our fearless leader Brandie to this disease we call cancer.

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(L-R) Brandie, Eileen, and Shanelle (Brandie's daughter)

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On April 11, 2006, the founder of the BCS&F forum at Delphi, Leslie "Brandie" Hind, passed over to a better place.  Without her, a lot of us wouldn't have the information or longterm friendships that we have gained through visiting the forum.

Below are some pictures that were taken at Brandie's memorial service.

 

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Brandie's Family
Danny, Glenn, and Shanelle

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During the service.

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Shanelle and Irene (Brandie's mom)

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Speaker at the service.

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Danny and Shanelle

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Brandie's dad (sitting) and brother Randy (standing in background)

 

COME WITH ME

The Lord saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be,
So He put his arms aroud you
And whispered, "Come with me."

With tearful eyes, we watched you suffer
And saw you fade away,
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
A beautiful smile at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove
He only takes the best.

It's lonesome here without you
We miss you so each day,
Our lives aren't the same
Since you went away.

When days are sad and lonely,
And everything goes wrong,
We seem to hear you whisper,
"Cheer up and carry on."

Each time we see your picture,
You seem to smile and say,
"Don't cry, I'm in God's keeping,
We'll meet again someday."

 

 

Maggie Newman
October 21, 1964 - April 21, 2003

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"Temper Tantrum"
 
A real-life story written by Maggie in October 2001. It's well worth taking the time to read. Grab yourself a cup of coffee and then click on her picture above and you'll be taken on her journey.
 

These are some highlights from Maggie's journal that she was keeping while going through her treatments.
 
"Today was better than yesterday - let's hope tomorrow is better than today!"
 

"Tried doing the hair with a curling iron this morning – what a laugh! I now have a poodle do!! I will try ragging then give up I think. My hair does it’s own thing – I don’t know why I thought I could teach it new tricks – grin."

A tree was planted in Maggie's honor. Click here to view the pictures of the planting, as well as pictures of her family.

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Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
 
I am a thousand winds that blow;
I am the diamond glints on snow.
 
I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
 
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the switft uplifting rush
 
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
 
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there; I did not die.

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 Pam Niewold
June 6, 1952 - February 27, 2004

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If I should go tomorrow
It would never be goodbye,
For I have left my heart with you,
So don't you ever cry.
The love that's deep within me,
Shall reach you from the stars,
You'll feel it from the heavens,
And it will heal the scars.

Some times life seems very tough
And the pain drags on and on
So take a little time out
To sit and watch the sun.

It makes the world seem very small
As it climbs for all to see.
The shadows grow and lengthen,
This day was made for me.

The body is forgotton
As faith becomes renewed
Lost in wonder at the sight
Of this truly lovely view.

There will be time later
To get on with the day.
To feed the body what it needs
And help it on its way.

The cancer doesn't go away
It's there to let me know
That I'm alive and kicking
And going with the flow.

Poem by: Suzanne (Kimbasa)

Suzanne Staniforth
     Killed in a car accident on July 3, 2004

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Kim Bloomer
May 19, 1953 - May 14, 2004

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Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower,
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf,
So Eden sank from grief,
So dawn goes to day,
Nothing gold can stay.
 
- Robert Frost

My Lord, My Lord,
How did I ever live,
without your love.
perfect love from above.

When I have doubts,
I cry and shout,
What is this all about.

You soothe me with your thoughts.
"Just trust me, I am near,
there is no need to fear.
You need not fear death,
I will give you new breath.
Either here, or on high,
I will lift you into the sky.
You will have wings to fly"

How wonderful, I sigh.

Original composition by: Judith C. Ogle
© 2003

Judy Ogle
August 29, 1945 - August 2004

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Carrie Hogan
May 17, 1959 - January 5, 2005

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After Glow
 
I'd like the memory of me
to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow
of smiles when life is done.
 
I'd like to leave an echo
whispering softly down the ways.
of happy times and laughing times
and bright and sunny days.
 
I'd like the tears of those who grieve,
to dry before the sun
of happy memories that I leave
when life is done.

 

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