The most uncomfortable part of all of this was the "tummy tuck" which caused a problem with standing up straight
right away due to the incision that goes from hip to hip (on bikini line). I think that was the most uncomfortable part and
was the location of the drain that stayed in longest. I do not do pain killers and am really determined to get back to "normal"
asap. Other people give pain a little more time and attention and will need medication that I refused. As Carly Simon says,
"I don't have time for the pain." I'm not numb: I just refuse to give in to it.
There are three stages to the procedure. The first is the most dramatic with creation of breasts and reduction
of stomach flab, however, the second is equally important as it takes away the "dog ears" on the ends of the abdominal scar
and he actually redid my scar as it had adhered to my abdomen somehow. I also had some liposuction done as part of the procedure
to even up the upper part of the abdomen to match the lower part where the tissue had been removed for the creation of the
breasts. The Doctor also did something to soften a hardness that had formed in an area of one breast and he also makes sure
the finished product on both sides match. After this procedure, you are trussed up in a girdle for 6 weeks while the liposuction
areas are molded... this is really uncomfortable... more so than the first surgery because I thought it would just be nip,
tuck, heal! HA! Liposuction is an involved procedure that works great but hurts everywhere. This visit is only a day out-patient
procedure but you can stay at the McFarland Inn until you are ready to travel again... I may have stayed four nights altogether,
arriving on a Thursday, procedure on Friday and leaving on Monday.
The final procedure was months later for me... the tatooing of areola. I was surprised that I felt pain from
this... nerve endings were regenerating faster than I thought... It was only the scar areas that relayed pain, so mostly it
was a non-event. All of it took me from March to December to finish, but could have been completed a shorter schedule.
It really was worth it and gave me such a positive boost after all the negativeness of the cancers, treatments
and mutilation of my body. I gambled that a little pain now (when I knew I wasn't feeling too good about my body) and I might
feel better afterwards... and I really do... better than I ever thought I would feel again... it's not the same as not going
through the cancer, but it sure is appreciated much more now. A note for anyone who feels they should not do this at their
"age": I am 60 and refused to listen to family who told me I was too old and "what does it matter anyway?...they were only
breasts"... hellooo!!! It mattered to me and it gave me some closure on the cancer itself and I still date, so yes, it matters!